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Inviting Guests!

Inviting Guests


One of the greatest ways to add value to your network (aka Network Value Added, NVA), is to be constantly and consistently inviting other professionals to Bold Networking events in your area. 

Why Invite Guests to Events

So, how does inviting guests to your area events add value to your network?  Clearly, there is a self-serving interest I have in your helping to market Bold Networking, as I’d like Bold Networking to expand internationally and impact as many lives as possible.  However, it is definitely a win/win, as you…

  • Can easily prospect for your ideal clients in a very low-pressure method of simply inviting them to meet the professionals you network with.
  • Expands your influence by adding Centers of Influence (C.O.I. from an earlier training topic analogy of COI ponds vs. KOI ponds.)
  • You also expand the influence of your fellow teammates by expanding their associations
  • You are able to solve bigger and more diverse problems through the strength of your growing network
  • More referrals are possible
  • You look cool in front of your friends because you have a lot of other friends

Just this evening I was visiting with one of our team’s coaches about the topic of inviting guests and what makes for amazing teams.  It is actually quite simple when it comes to growth, get 2 to 3 teammates inviting a couple of guests each and every week.  And, if at all possible, get everyone invite a single guest every week (two if they are being wild and crazy).  A team like that cannot be stopped and will experience explosive growth!  That’s it, nothing fancy.

Who to Invite

So, if you’re on board with the idea of inviting every week, and I really hope you are, who might you consider inviting?

  1. Those professions you are most likely to give an introduction to.  For example, a realtor may be sending a ton of referrals to a heat and air, roofing, handyman, home inspector, and mortgage person.
  2. Those professions you are most likely to get introductions from.  For example, a realtor may typically receive introductions from a credit repair company, apartment leasing manager, and a disaster restoration company.
  3. Those professions most likely to be in a networking group.  For example, Financial Advisor, P&C Insurance Agent, Life and Health Insurance Agent, Mortgage Lender, Health and Wellness, Accountant/Bookkeeper/Payroll, Voluntary Benefits, and Marketing Services (Web, Print, Promo).

Where to Invite

Now that you know who might make for a great invitation, where do you find them?

  1.  Other networking events – chamber of commerce, coffee with friends,, Eventbrite, Professional Associations etc.
  2. LinkedIn – this is my number one preferred way
  3. Search Engine to cold call
  4. Referral from other professionals in your network
  5. Facebook – request a recommendation

Making the Invitation

Personally, I just come out and ask.  I may say something like, “Bob, this may not be a fit for you and that’s okay, a few of us are actively seeking a __________ to send referrals to.  Do you know anyone that might be open to coming to lunch to meet some of the professionals I network with and perhaps gaining more referrals?”

Once the invitation is accepted, I recommend sending a calendar invitation, following up, and perhaps even confirming the day of.  Some people I’ve followed up for months before their schedule and business need would even allow them to break free for lunch.  Others, were a one call cold call and they showed up, joined, and have both given and received dozens of referrals and hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of business.


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Robert Johnson

I'm passionate about helping sales professionals & businesses grow sales through training, coaching, & sometimes taking over their sales and marketing divisions as a short-term bridge management team. I also help sales pros get more referrals with less effort through professional networking. Our prospects deserve highly trained sales professionals not using "Old School," high pressure, low yield tactics. I typically get referred to successful sales professionals and businesses that are doing well and sometimes struggle with inconsistent sales, concerned their goods and services are being treated like a commodity, frustrated sales team discounts, begs, peddles, and pushes to sell at low margins, or may be losing sleep because they are missing their goals. You may be crushing your goals, breaking records, and have zero issues with sales, and as such, I'm not sure if any of these issues are even a concern for you, your business, or a professional you care about. If something caught your attention, please consider connecting with me here on LinkedIn and sending me an email at [email protected] Happy Hunting! Robert Johnson-(918)928-7158